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February 28, 2007

MEMO: From Ron Klein

As you will see, INTERLINK BLOG newsletter is no longer password protected. I received a number of requests to make it easier to get to the site of the INTERLINK BLOG. I suggest that you save the address for this BLOG to your favorites and add interlinkonline@gmail.com to your list of desired incoming email addresses. This is the address NBCCH is using to transmit the INTERLINK BLOG newsletter.

Secondly, I'd like to remind you that you can be listed on the NBCCH WebPages, by state, free of charge. Go to the NBCCH WebPages, www.natboard.com, and note how the listings for "Find a Hypnotherapist" are organized. Send me your info, in 2 paragraphs, and I'll publish your listing. Practitioners who are listed, tell me they receive lots of calls from prospective clients. Please send your info in plain text as part of the body of your email to me.

Finally, a few NBCCHers have yet to renew for 2007. Please do so ASAP. CLICK HERE to open and print the 2007 renewal form.

February 27, 2007

Book Review: Life Coaching - A Manual for Helping Professionals

By: Dave Ellis

Crown House Publishing, 2006

Reviewed by Judith E. Pearson, Ph.D.

In his newly published book, Life Coaching, author Dave Ellis defines coaching as "assisting people to create their own solutions, arrive at their own answers and discover options for themselves," while they are creating "the life of their dreams." I really can't think of a better definition of coaching than this, and Life Coaching is an excellent book for coaches who are already in the business, as well as people who want to enter the profession.

A coach is the client's "full partner" in personal transformation, providing a professional, confidential, and life-changing relationship. Ellis, himself a highly success life coach, shares his enthusiasm for this work on every page of this book. He tells readers that coaching is a "celebration of life" that enlarges peoples' visions of themselves, their possibilities, and their creativity. He discusses the elements of the coaching relationship: These are listening and acceptance, aligned with the ability to promote personal change, improved relationships, freedom from suffering, and self-discipline.

Ellis lists the qualities of life coaches and defines what makes coaching a distinct profession. For novices, he also discusses the "mechanics of coaching": How to schedule appointments, coaching formats (individual or group, face-to-face or by phone), getting started with a client, preparing for the session, how to behave during the session, and how to end the coaching relationship.

Coaching is a conversation. Ellis presents a continuum of coaching communication tactics that accomplish various purposes such as helping clients explore possibilities, discover their passions, define what they want, and commit to taking action toward outcomes. He explores the variations on the conversation and how that conversation can be used for sharing, debriefing, and teaching. Readers can learn how to effectively ask questions, help clients create ceremonies and rituals, hold clients accountable, and encourage responsibility.

While many other books on coaching seem to tell readers to simply encourage clients to find their own way, Ellis lists several life enhancement skills that coaches can teach to their clients. First, coaches can teach clients how to get the most from the relationship and from each session. In this respect, coaches can model and teach clients how to have positive expectations, communicate openly, take responsibility for outcomes, maintain a long-term vision, set goals, and create one's future.

Coaches can also teach practical and valuable skills such as planning and prioritizing, problem solving, changing habits, handling emotions, taking responsibility, and improving relationships. Ellis tells how he teaches each of these skills, and this chapter alone is well worth the price of the book.

Life Coaching offers guidance on how to be an effective coach as well as an effective individual. Ellis calls on coaches to continuously evaluate their effectiveness and pursue continuous professional development. He discusses the most common mistakes coaches make. He advises coaches on how to handle professional issues such as appropriate intimacy, dual relationships, making referrals, and responding to a client's unethical behavior or illegal activity.

Ellis includes a chapter on how to market a coaching practice, how to set up a home office and how to set a fee. He also devotes a Q & A chapter to the questions coaches ask when feeling most perplexed; questions about professionalism and about moving beyond sticking points. He even gives coaches a method for finding answers to their own questions by drawing upon self-awareness, observation skills, curiosity and intuition.

There is much to like about this book: It is filled with practical ideas and information, it is easy to read and comprehend, and it is evident that the author speaks from personal experience and credibility. There is a companion volume for clients-a client textbook-called Falling Awake, available through Ellis's web site: www.lifecoachbook.com. I went online and looked at Falling Awake. Ellis describes this book as "Twelve Success Strategies to get what you want and create the life of your dreams no matter what your circumstance." Readers can download the book, order the hardcopy, or read it online in Adobe. It has many excellent practical exercises in planning, visualizing and journaling for creating one's future.

Readers can also purchase Life Coaching online at www.CrownHouse.co.uk in the UK and www.CHPUS in the U.S.

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Judith E. Pearson, Ph.D. is a licensed counselor and psychotherapist with a private practice in Springfield, Virginia where she specializes in Hypnotherapy and Neuro-Linguistic Programming. She is also a free-lance writer and the author of The Weight, Hypnotherapy and YOU Weight Reduction Program, An NLP and Hypnotherapists Manual. Her web site is www.engagethepower.com.


February 26, 2007

Repressed Memory - Fact or Fiction

There is a pain --so utter

It swallows substance up

Then covers the Abyss with Trance

So Memory can step around -- across. . .

Emily Dickinson wrote those lovely words sometime in the middle of the 19th century. Ever since that same idea found its way into literature, the theater and movies -- the idea is that when a memory becomes too painful to bear, the mind finds a way to shut it out and seal it off, to "step around -- across."

Repressed memory has been studied by a team of researchers at the Harvard Medical School. Their findings may shed some light on the subject. It certainly is fruit for thought.

To read two articles about their study, click the links below:

Washington Post

New York Times


February 05, 2007

Expectation: The Very Brief Therapy Book

By: Rubin Battino, M.S.

Crown House Publishing, Wales, Copyright 2006

Reviewed by: Judith E. Pearson, Ph.D.

Can change occur in a single session of therapy? Rubin Battino says, yes, it can, if both the therapist and client expect it. That's why Battino always conducts every therapy session "as if each session is the last one" in which he will see the client. In his latest book, Expectation, he writes that the crucial ingredient in the success of brief therapy is the expectation on the part of both the therapist and the client that rapid, meaningful change is possible and will occur, even in just one session.

Battino writes that brief therapy offers a departure from the medical model of psychotherapy. The medical model is ill fitted to psychotherapy because there is no direct correspondence between diagnosis and treatment. People who seek help from psychotherapists are not diseased; they are troubled and present concerns that can often be remedied without months or years of analysis or soul-searching. Battino advocates replacing the medical model with a contextual model in which the efficacy of treatment procedures is based on the meaning attributed to those procedures

Battino draws from Moshe Tolman's 1990 book, Single Session Therapy-a synopsis of a groundbreaking study of a California mental health organization in which the majority of psychotherapy patients reported benefit from a single session. Battino also cites the work of others, all of whom believe that people can solve their problems, when therapists offer client-centered rapport, a focus on the client's outcome, and a recognition of the clients unique personality traits, circumstances, strengths, and capabilities.

Hope imparts curative powers and gives people the strength to endure and overcome adversity. Battino reminds us "Hope and expectation are inextricably connected." We are all familiar with the placebo effect. In the same way, the expectation of change becomes a fulfilling prophecy. It is the game of "as if" that often makes imagined possibilities into real results.

Reframing can facilitate expectations as well, by changing the meaning of events and symptoms. Reframing helps people to interpret reality in new ways and grasp new possibilities.

Battino devotes a chapter to the value of rapport in creating a "therapeutic alliance" with the client. He gives an excellent summary of hypnotic language patterns ("the precise use of vague language") in brief therapy. Ericksonian hypnotherapists will enjoy his chapter on this subject, especially Battino's discussion of confusion techniques, metaphor, and "expectation language" (suggestions, implications and presuppositions phrased to enlist the client's cooperation and/or advance the client toward the outcome). Battino posits that all types of therapy involve trance-work in one way or another.

A Compendium of Brief Therapy Approaches

The remaining two-thirds of Expectation is a compendium of brief therapy approaches suitable for a single session. The common element of all is that both the client and the practitioner maintain the expectation of a positive result. Battino describes a dozen types of brief therapy and often presents several methods or variations within each type. Here is a sampling:

1. Jay Haley's Ordeal Therapy: The client is assigned an ordeal; the expectation being that the client will learn something worthwhile from the experience and, with that knowledge or skill, solve his problem. A well-designed ordeal must be a) more severe than the problem, b) related to the symptom, c) a healthy or beneficial behavior, d) within the client's range of capability, e) safe, and f) linked to the occurrence of the symptom.

2. Ambiguous Function Assignments: The client agrees to carry out a task, with the understanding that doing so will create new thinking and lead to new behaviors. Examples are to carry an object, climb a mountain, take a walk in the woods, read a particular book or poem, visit a museum, write a letter, etc. The assignment evokes the client's curiosity, and causes her to take some action in regard to the problem at hand.

3. Rituals and Ceremonies: The client and therapist design a ritual or ceremony to signify an end to a problem, the beginning of a change, or the celebration of an accomplishment. The ritual or ceremony attaches meaning and significance to the client's progress.

4. The Miracle Question: The client is invited to describe how his life is different, after "a miracle has occurred" and the problem is solved. This method is a hallmark of "solution-oriented" therapy.

Other approaches include Erickson's Utilization approach, Burn's Nature-Guided Therapy, Metaphor, Rossi's Rapid Methods of ideomotor signaling, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Narrative Therapy, and Derks' Social Panorama.

The Author

Rubin Battino is an adjunct professor at Wright State University in the Department of Human Services and President of the Milton H. Erickson Society of Dayton, Ohio. He has a private practice and serves as a facilitator of The Charlie Brown Exceptional Patient Support Group at Dayton.

Conclusion

Battino expresses what many practitioners have suspected for a long time. It isn't our methods or disciplines that matter; it's the relationship we maintain with clients, our confidence in what we do, and our faith in our clients---these are what truly matter in counseling and psychotherapy.

This book is such a handy reference tool, and it should be on the desk of every brief therapy practitioner. Battino continues to inspire and teach with candor, elegant simplicity, and an obvious passion for his subject matter. Expectation is a welcome addition to Battino's previous books on guided imagery, healing metaphor, and Ericksonian hypnotherapy. Once more, thank you, Rubin, for sharing with your readers how you do your work!

Expectation can be purchased at www.chpus.com (in the U.S.) or from www.crownhouse.co.uk in the U.K.

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Judith E. Pearson, Ph.D. is a licensed counselor and psychotherapist with a private practice in Springfield, Virginia where she specializes in Hypnotherapy and Neuro-Linguistic Programming. She is Executive Director of the National Board of Certified Clinical Hypnotherapists and a trainer with the American Hypnosis Training Academy. She is also a free-lance writer and speaker. Her web site is www.engagethepower.com.